It is such a rewarding and fun-filled experience to spend time with grandchildren. It brings back wonderful memories of our own children growing up on the farm. It is fun to watch the children play with some of the same toys that their parents used to use. Little children have a way of making us laugh more and play with abandon as we turn back the clock of time.
Friday, July 30, 2010
Hannah's Farm Visit - 2010
It is such a rewarding and fun-filled experience to spend time with grandchildren. It brings back wonderful memories of our own children growing up on the farm. It is fun to watch the children play with some of the same toys that their parents used to use. Little children have a way of making us laugh more and play with abandon as we turn back the clock of time.
24 2/7
My pregnancy with Hannah was a piece of cake until Sunday, December 8, 2007....I woke up for church to some clotting and called my doctor, who sent me to the hospital to be checked out. Our hospital visit was pretty uneventful, other than 5 ultrasounds and lots of residents checking things out and telling me they didn't see anything out of the ordinary. I was sent home with instructions to see my doctor the next day. After seeing Dr. Ruedrich, he told me that I had a low-lying placenta and that was likely the problem, but to just take it easy at work (laying down on a couch for 20 minutes, 3 times a day -- during the workday) and to take it easy in the evenings and I'd likely be fine.
For this pregnancy we've thoroughly checked the placement of my placenta and it isn't low like last time -- it's in a great location and looks good.
This 24-week mark was something that I kept in the back of my mind, but I wasn't really obsessing over it. Our doctor has a philosophy that sometimes you have to treat the patient's mental health and well-being as well as the medical issues, so he scheduled extra appointments around this 24-week period to reassure us that everything was still fine. He told us there were no medical reasons that he would need to do extra ultrasounds or checks because things looked great, but he wanted to make sure that we were reassured that this pregnancy was different.
I'm so thankful for a great doctor and a healthy pregnancy!
Thursday, July 29, 2010
24 Weeks - Baby Update
In fact, I'm just now starting to have co-workers ask my secretary if I'm pregnant -- apparently I don't look pregnant enough for them to ask me....but they are checking with Barb and then showing up in my office to congratulate me. I guess better safe than sorry! Of course, it's not usually the men that I work with that are checking in with Barb....it's the women assistants and accounting staff.....the male attorneys that I work with may be oblivious : )
I'm finally starting to wear some maternity clothes, but I'm still in that awkward stage where my regular clothes are too small and maternity clothes are too big. I'm already bigger than I ever was with Hannah (at least I think I am), so it is interesting for me to see how things are changing and growing. But, I'm gaining weight at about the same pace -- I'm up about 10 pounds, which is right where I was with Hannah before I went in the hospital (and then somehow over 2 months I managed to lose 2 pounds and grow a baby....). We'll have to see where things go from here!
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Drop Off in WV
Last year when Hannah went to WV, my parents came and got her....this year, after dropping Jon at the airport, I drove Hannah (and Abby) myself. Due to recent potty training and the post-lunch naptime, I was trying to figure out how to do this trip with stops (because one of the long sections of road at the 1/2 way point has few places to stop and the rest area is closed). I decided to stop at Buckeye Lake and get McDonald's, and then take Hannah (and Abby) to the rest area down the road to eat. It was WAY too hot to even consider leaving the dog in the car. So, we ordered our lunch and then headed to the rest area.
At the rest area, the picnic tables were too far from the cars to feel comfortable taking either Hannah or Abby over and then going to get the other. So, I was trying to carry food for us, hold Hannah's hand, and Abby on her leash. Abby was excited to be out, so she was pulling....Hannah was trying to run. Needless to say, we had at least one adjustment on the (short) walk to the picnic tables and Hannah was "helping" by carrying some stuff. Three feet from the tables, Abby lunges, my drink falls to the ground and splashes Hannah. Hannah starts crying because she got wet....Abby received a beat down and was told to lay down. What a way to start lunch.....trust me, it didn't get better. Hannah didn't want her chicken nuggets, so we swapped for my cheeseburger (I always drive Jon crazy by getting the 95 cent regular cheeseburger and not the $1 double - he says it doesn't make any sense, but I don't want a double...). Then, she spilled her milk all over her shirt because those milk containers don't have foil underneath the lids so you can just poke a straw through. More tears. We were at lunch FOREVER. I used every single napkin we had cleaning up my drink and Hannah's milk and in the end was using the bag to sop up some more spilled milk. I got everyone back to the car and left Abby while I took Hannah in to the potty. I left Hannah's shorts on, but down at her ankles and she proceeded to pee on them by splashing out of the potty somehow. More tears. We washed our hands and I turned on the dryer -- MORE tears. Back to the car for a change of clothes and a baby wipe bath.... Great. Hopefully she'll nap, since it's nap time, right???? WRONG. No nap. She talked and talked the whole way there. By Marietta she was starting to get tired, but she wasn't about to "give it up." When she saw the bridge into St. Mary's, she said "we're almost to Grandma's" and got an extra dose of energy. By the time we got to my mom and dad's (HOURS after dropping off Jon), I was exhausted and she was ready to run and play with Grandma! How in the world did my mom regularly travel with the 3 of us (all born within 3 1/2 years of each other) by herself?!?!?!
I managed to enjoy getting spoiled by my parents until Saturday night (they watch Hannah, they feed me great meals), when I had to leave right after bathtime so I could be home to do a client meeting SUNDAY afternoon at my office (that was conveniently scheduled during my drive to WV). I hadn't planned on leaving until Sunday morning, but it would have been hard to get Abby home and me back to the office on time for the meeting (especially having to be dressed presentably), so I went ahead and did the evening drive. It wasn't bad, but I've been spoiled by having Jon chauffeur me everywhere since we've been married ; )
Here are some pictures I took on Saturday while Hannah was playing with Grandma:
This is my parents' chow chow, Bear.
I've always grown up with big outdoor dogs (my dad used to famously say that he had 3 kids and didn't need any other pets in the house). When I was little we had german shepherds and some sort of lab mix (that we had for over 15 years - my parents got him before they had me). We also had a beagle and an assortment of mutts, as well as farm cats, rabbits, horses, cows, pigs, and a chicken or two. Needless to say, my parents have downsized in the animal department and Bear is the only dog right now. Bear's getting pretty old, so Mom was careful to make sure she was in between Hannah and Bear at all times....because Hannah wanted to hug and pet Bear like she does Abby. Although Bear may have enjoyed that a few years ago, these days (he's at least 12, I think) it is better to play it safe since he isn't around kids and is getting to be a grumpy old man. Most of the summer he is hiding out underground in an old canning cellar (which Hannah always wanted to go investigate) because he is so hot, so at least it's not a constant battle to keep Hannah away from him.
Thursday, July 22, 2010
All Done!
Following her therapy session today, her speech therapist determined that she was no longer showing any delays that "warrant[ed] eligibility in communication" for the free services. It is amazing the progress that she has made. When we first went to the mega-therapy session back in November of last year, she was delayed between 6 and 9 months from where she should have been. Today during her testing she scored as well as a 3-year old, and she is only 2 1/2! She not only caught up, but zoomed ahead.
Hannah is now speaking in sentences, she asks questions non-stop..."what's this, Mommy?", and she has an amazing vocabulary for someone so little. She pulls out words that we didn't even know she learned, like "ta-da" in the bathtub the other night as she was making mounds out of the bubbles and telling her dad that "it's not convenient". Watching a child grow and develop and learn new things is just so amazing.
Of course, watching your child become more and more independent is so much fun too. Hannah is definitely her own little person and while she loves hugs and cuddles, she'll let you know when she wants to go off and do her own thing. This morning, for the first time, she said she wanted Daddy and not Mommy when she was getting dressed -- Daddy was of course thrilled, as he is often the "runner-up" choice when given the option between the two of us...but Mommy was realizing that her little munchkin isn't so little anymore.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
30 Month Checkup
We're going to keep Hannah on whole milk a little longer (most kids go off of it at age 2, but Hannah is going to stay on it since "the extra calories certainly won't hurt"). Otherwise, Hannah is drinking from open cups ("sippys are for babies, Mommy") and using regular silverware at the table (other than with cereal - we have this bendable rubber spoon that is a lot easier to get the Cheerios and milk on the spoon together and keep them there!). When we can get her to sit in her booster seat, it makes meals easier since she is contained and can't hop down to hug Abby, go over to Abby's mat and tell her to sit, or run to get a toy or book to show me. However, there are times she insists on a "big girl" chair and we let her do that every now and then. She is just growing up so fast and is definitely a little girl and not a baby.
We have meltdowns every now and then (that typically Jon deals with in the afternoons while I'm at work). I think they're primarily when she's tired, but they can be caused by anything....from not getting the snack she wanted to dropping something on the floor (or spilling water on her shirt or leg). Ah, the drama of being 2. Hannah has also learned to dress and undress herself, so she likes to pick out her own clothes and put her dirty clothes in the hamper....she also likes to take off her clothes downstairs and dance around naked : )
Hannah loves the time that she's spending with her Daddy this summer and is getting to do all kinds of fun stuff with him. I also continue to try to do fun activities with her on my Fridays off, and she's enjoying the rec center pool (she can even put her face in the water and blow bubbles....something I think I was 5 and in swimming lessons at my Grandma's house before I could do!), and being outside as much as possible. She is an explorer and doesn't hesitate to go off and examine bugs, leaves, etc. She also plays well by herself and will frequently run off to her playroom and play with her kitchen or read books while we're somewhere else in the house (of course, if it gets too quiet, that's when we go looking for her!).
I continue to be amazed by this little girl that we brought home from the hospital at 5 weeks old weighing about 5 pounds. She has such a fun, independent personality, and keeps us laughing all (most) of the time. She is very affectionate and we love getting hugs and kisses from her (although I'm not sure that Abby enjoys it like Jon & I do). It is so much fun to watch her grow up and learn to do new things! I definitely love this stage of her life.
Monday, July 19, 2010
Chilldog Weekend
This year in a break from prior tradition, we decided that each family would be responsible for a meal instead of the host providing all of them. As hosts, we ended up doing a couple of meals, but it was nothing like last time when we fed 18 people all weekend (yes, the group has grown a bit from the last time we hosted!). This year we also asked families to bring their own towels and some of their own sheets, which really cut down on the post-weekend laundry! These changes definitely made things easier for the sole working mom of the group.
It's hard to believe that they've been having these annual gatherings since 2000. This year, to celebrate their "10th anniversary" I had a cake made for them.....in the shape of a dog bone! We were hoping to cut into it Friday night after dinner when everyone arrived, but a few families got off to a late start....and the 4th family didn't arrive until about 9:30pm (with the 5th not able to arrive until about 11:30pm!). The kids were certainly crazy when we cut into a cake that late at night and gave everyone a snack before sending the kids to bed!
Saturday, July 10, 2010
Vacation - St. John's
Jon and I took our 2nd kid-free vacation in as many years..... (well, I guess we weren't entirely kid-free, since I'm 5 months pregnant).... We went with two other couples to St. John in the US Virgin Islands. Josh & Danila were one of the couples....the other was John & Sarah Gauger -- they are really good friends of Josh & Danila, but we didn't know them very well prior to vacation. Fortunately, we all got along really well and had a great time.
We were cleared to leave town by my doctor the day before vacation - just to be safe we had everything checked out before we headed out. I didn't have any restrictions placed on me other than to take it easy and to avoid the tap water when out in town. Otherwise, I was free to do anything I wanted, which was great.
Here are a sampling of pictures from our trip.....Since we were at beaches snorkeling a lot, we didn't take a camera every day, or only one couple would take their camera. I haven't gotten pictures from everyone yet, so these are just pictures from our camera.
On Monday, the girls went to St. Thomas to go shopping. I tagged along even though I'm not much of a shopper. I'm so "not" a shopper that I was the only one whose husband gave her an entirely unlimited budget of "if you see something you want, just get it" when we went to this jewelry shopping haven. I was also the only one who purchased absolutely nothing (other than lunch and a snack) while over there. Go figure. (I think Jon knows me well!)